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Each people has a story book of life, only you can write your own story in your story book. This is the one unique of us: only we can make story.
Everyone has his/her own story......can be past and now story. However, how you look on your story? Is the past of story make us become who are we today or what we have share about our story at now become who are me today? Actually we not need always share about our stories to others.
Maybe past happy and memorable events make us become a more positive person or past sadness and painful stories make us become more negative person. That is our choice, depends on how we define our self by past story or now story.
It is useless if we always share about the sadness or pain stories to others. We will always live in sadness and cannot left from sadness when we always think about these stories. The negative emotions will still remain in our mind. Then, we will mold us become a negative person and always feel guilty, hopeless and lost of energy.
Some students felt that they are failure person when they always fail in exam or competition at past. They will easy to give up and lost of chance to change self when they have challenge. It is because they are not focus on now and their future.
Some people like to share their past bad stories and use these stories to define our self now. However these stories are not the main point of life.
We need to accept them as a whole person, although how sadness and painful of someone's story. They can change to positive life at now. Focus on now and keep moving to positive.
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I like to listen people's story. Telling of story can let me more understand about the person. Telling story can make them to express their negative feelings and emotions, then they will felt released. However, it is very important to guide people to a new and positive story. This is the responsibility of counselor.
Bolog Title Link: http://www.counseling.org/news/blog/aca-blog/2016/04/26/stories
Yong Sing Jye
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Yong, seharusnya adi awal entri ditulis ringkasan blog yg dirujuk dan dinyatakan siapa penulisnya. Selepas berkongsi 'content' ptg dr blog tersebut perlu dikaitkan dgn pengalaman atau pandangan sendiri.
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